There are two kinds of lovers inside me...the rustic, roughened guy who has a 'straight' way and the modern guy who deals her girl in overt ways. The first guy is a plain chap; he doesn’t know of fine ways to keep her girl hooked. His love however is unrelenting, singular and large in absolute terms. The modern guy is refined and his love is playful, even tricky, and has more colours. The love itself is however not exactly enormous or crash-proof.
I don’t know which of these faces of mine to show when I come across women.
I don’t know between the ‘GOOD MAN’ and the ‘artful lover’, who wins?
Asked differently, say..... between a good husband and a foxy companion, who wins ?
And are combinations available? (and before that, possible?)
Asked differently, is there a GOOD MAN ?? ;)
(Is the answer too easy?)
the article had a very a very dark side to it.
ReplyDeletein the present times,the playboys are crowned kings.the last question was a bit complex and took me a time to solve the enigma
Tough question. However Love should be always unconditional.
ReplyDelete@ Vikash:
ReplyDeleteDear, thanks for writing. I don't think I identify any dark side to this writing. It is just about reading a woman's heart and trying to understand her, in as much as she can be understood :)
It's selfish, yes, but not dark.
After all, for most of us men, there is little choice God gave us on this front :) So understanding her better makes a lot of good sense :)
Anyway, so what's the outcome of the enigma, if any ?
@ SreeKumar Nair:
//Tough question. However Love should be always unconditional.//
Sure thing. But my question is whether the nature of the delivery of love is crucial too. I think it is, even if at the expense of the amount of love delivered. Of course, tough question.
okay guys make way for the lady to intervene..!
ReplyDelete:-)
let me make this more easier for you all..
@ all of you
well..woman are definetly mystery..but they like to be showered with love and sweet nothings..
so rather than speculating which side to take whether a playboy or a "good husband" types..
what you need to understand is the combination of these two things can work wonders..!
love should be unconditional no doubt about that...
but the way you deliver your 'piece' of love matters. feeling somthing for someone just exists inside you and probably u can judge yourselves to be passionate and stuff...
but i think it would count more if the other counterppart of you says the same thing.
so show all your love out..! :-P
or if u re reserved or that sort of thing then please here to "how deep is your love" by beegees.!
dat mite actually help..!
Rashmi, you (alright, you on behalf of other women) are asking for "unconditional" love from a "good husband" whom you can switch 'ON' to become a "playboy" when your mood is ticking right !!! lol ... comeon, just this much ?? I'm sure you women have few more things in mind to make yourselves feel "loved". Let us know : )
ReplyDeletePS: I'm not sure if listening to beegees would help, but if one could sing like them, very few struggles would remain in life : )
@ vaibhav
ReplyDeletesee i a sure men love multitasking women..who can work, cook, take care your home and raise children..
so why cant the same be expected out of men as well...( specifically in the matter of this love )
we love men who can a be little naughty and if rightly said so 'sexy'..just like the playboy types..and that defnitely doesnt mean you go around showing your playboy side to every woman that comes yoour way or you might just be known as a flirt..!
i am saying this keeping in mind that "one man-woman" policy...!
and every woman has different needs...and its solely a mans quest to find out (wch can be exciting trust me) :-P
ReplyDeleteand i cant actually say anything specific as to what woman need to feel to be loved..!
and its different with every woman..!
Hey there,
ReplyDeleteIf I may now, just got one thing to tell ya, pal; don't get too tough on yourself; most women dig you for just the way you are. Trying to play the part of who you really aren't could have its consequences. Take it as it comes; just be yourself.
-April-