The first time u commit a mistake, and you are in the receiving end for their wrong doings.It hurts, real bad. But its alright. You can forgive yourself and forgive the world around you and convince yourself that 'it was your first experience'. And also you hear to all the theory about people telling theres somthing better waiting for you.
And when it happens the second time, What are you going to do? Who are you going to believe? Who are you going to listen? To all those people who assured you about 'the better on your way'?
I guess its very easy to stand back and judge. How about going through it all? No ones up for that deal aint they? Everyday, every night and every moment it feels like there is a pin that slowly is making its way through your heart and injecting you with the venom to be Comfortably numb. It feels like you have this huge blackhole inside you which is going to suck and bring down evrybody around you who are busy giving you the sympathy or empathy or whatever..
And as far the mercy goes for the mistake, how are you going to forgive someone or forgive the world around you when you cant even forgive yourself for feeling what u feel??
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ReplyDeletethis questions hits everyone at some stage of his life.it's like hell when you are the epicentre of mistakes and judged by people who never understood what failure is all about.it's better to be patient and not loose the hope.sometimes it's frustation too that crops up.
ReplyDeletea good article.i have gone through lot of failures. still going through...
ReplyDeleteFailures are there in everyone's life. It is how you take it that matters. I have found that discovering oneself beyond life is the surest way of getting over crises. Believe that the YOU, a being capable of such unfathomable pains, such true feelings, such earnest appreciation of the beauty of creation, such powerful passions, was created for some purpose beyond the transience, beyond the ludicrous meaninglesnes, the absurd unpredictability, and the unreasonable inequity of life. Man's pains, sorrows, joys, failure, success, everything has a lifespan...but perhaps not man himself (herself included)...otherwise would the creator be a fool to create something as wonderful, as splendid, as beautiful, as mighty as you are...just to waste you to the senseless squalls of life? Keep sailing. We are going somewhere.
ReplyDeleteTime heals each of our wounds by replacing it with a deeper one! It replaces every gift that it takes back with a more magnificient one.